Hi Charlotte,

I work for a Housing Association and without saying too much am involved in evicting tenants. Don't get me wrong, many steps are taken before this happens and it is a last resort. If you want some advice on what you can do to keep your home then PM me... there is always something...

I'm Ben and my username is... Ellie&GeorgiesDad

Charlotte, many rescues offer a service whereby you can set up in your will that you would like them to have power of attorney over your dog and find him a new home with full rescue back up, my details are in my signature, bottom of this post, feel free to email or ring if you want to discuss it further.

You never know I may be able to help with housing advice to,

and you are the most important thing in Justins life x You sound like you have an awful lot on your plate at the moment - please feel free to pm me anytime. suicide really leaves a devastating aftermath, and Justin needs you as much as you need him.

remember we are all here for you

Sam

Hi
You have found the right place here to discuss whatever is worrying you.
don't stay away come back and talk there are loads of fab peeps on here from all walks of life who can give you great advice and a shoulder to cry on if you need it.

Justin needs you to be strong and you are because you have taken the bravest step and asked for help.


Jillx

Charlotte, good to hear you,...... lots of help out there....... just ask, theres always a way. Justin needs you too. keep posting, dont know much about housing but I do know that there are so many people on here with eperiences that can help you find a solution.

Do not give up.

Whoah whoah hun. Why is the landlord lightly to evict ? Pm me if you want to chat.

Charlotte last year I walked away from a bad relationship. I am if you like homeless, I have 3 + 1 foster dogs, they are with me where I stay, I will be 62 soon. I WILL SURVIVE and we (me and the dogs) will manage and so will you. There is too much in this life to live for, too many wrongs to be righted, you couldn't do that if you were dead.

Charlotte do you work? Do you suffer from SAD? Have you had a recent relationship break up? All these things affect how we perceive ourselves. Please take the offers of help you have had from members on here.

Most of all Charlotte we'd all love to see a pic of Justin, wouldn't we guys?

Wise words there from one of our younger members.

And I agree we would love to see a photo of Justin. There's lots of support here on ST, you just have to ask and be honest.

Good luck with whatever you decide.

Keep posting on here Charlotte as there are loads of people who will be willing to help.
im edited this to add that i had post natal depression after the birth of my 3rd child. It was the worse 18 months of my life and i couldnt have cared sometimes if i lived or died. I had a really strong caring family who helped me through both practically and mentally. I know how you are feeling, you have had lot of offers of help on here, talk to people, let them help if they can. Keep strong hun.
PM me if you want to talk, anytime

Thank you all for being so kind. I have no reason to think that the landlord will evict me imminently, but I'm a born worryer. The landlord is not what you would call one of the most reliable people, he takes several months to get things fixed if something is broken, but at least he turns a blind eye to me having pets [I've found out that most landlords don't allow their tenants to have pets]. What I really want/need is a council place, but I've been on the local council's waiting list for 14 years & they're not interested in me at all.

I wouldn't say that the council aren't interested just yet - a friend of mine got a council property after being on the council housing list for 15 years He originally applied at the age of 17 when his parents evicted him

So don't give up just yet

Huge hugs to you and Justin


P.s I'm a worryer too so you aren't alone

Justin

He's fab, did you get him as a puppy? If not how long have you had him? My dogs all try to get on the sofa with me, so then I can't move! Does Justin do that?

I cant see him

Charlotte, you know that they said there was plenty of good advice out her, well I am an intensive care nurse and over the years have seen many people who have felt that they cannot cope with life.

The first thing I want to say is that suicide is the permanent solution to a temporary problem. All the temporary problems can be solved with help. If you can sit down with someone and tell your story to someone who can help then this will be the first step. In your way this is what you are doing on this post, isn't it?
Keep posting and let us know how you are.
The people here will not just want to help Justin, he needs his mum, too, Charlotte. You are a package, we care about you both.

Do you think you can find someone in your locality to talk to?
You sound like you have a lot of worries at the moment.